Do you find it difficult to ask for what you want during sex? Perhaps you believe that you’re not ‘allowed’ to say what you want or give feedback to your partner. Use these two simple practices to feel more confident and relaxed in asking for what you want.
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Testicular Massage for Fertility
What is male infertility? If you or your partner are struggling with infertility issues, you are not alone. More and more couples are struggling to conceive. A 2017 meta-analysis study found ‘a significant decline in sperm counts…between 1973 and 2011’…
Perineal Massage
What is perineal massage? Perineal massage is the process of massaging and gently stretching the skin, fascia and muscles of the pelvic floor, the opening of the vagina and the perineum (the space between your vaginal opening and your anus)….
The Orgasm Gap: Part 4 for Men
Acknowledgement and dialogue Talking about sex can feel vulnerable and uncomfortable, but if you can’t talk about it it’s possible that you’re not really emotionally ready to do it. Many of us grew up with a complete lack of dialogue…
The Orgasm Gap: Part 3 for Men
Learn to masturbate in a Tantric or mindful way The way you touch yourself translates to how you touch your partner and how present you are with her. The most common complaint I hear from women, about the way men…
The Orgasm Gap: Part 2 for Men
Foreplay is not just a warm up When you start to really understand and implement part one of this series, you will probably wonder what it is that you’re supposed to do during sex if it’s not all about getting…
The Orgasm Gap: Part 1 for Men
Is your female partner missing out on orgasms? A male friend of mine recently shared with me his sadness, upon hearing from two of his guy friends, that their female partners never orgasm during sex. He reported that ‘the guys…
How to give an erotic massage
Tips from a tantric massage therapist Giving and receiving massage is a fantastic way to create intimacy, trust and connection in your relationship(s). Erotic massage can take the pressure off penetrative sex, can help you both to relax, can add…
Valentines 2021: Couples Massage Course
Nothing says ‘I love you’ like giving and receiving massage… Valentines Day 2021 will be a very different experience for many couples. Without the usual ‘romantic dinner at a fancy restaurant’ to fall back on (thanks COVID!), what can you…
Deep Penetration…
What is deep penetration/deep sex? Deep penetration, or deep sex, is any sexual experience that includes direct stimulation of the cervix. There is no actual ‘penetration’ of the cervix involved: fingers/penises/dildos/vegetables 😉 will not actually pass through the opening of…