Acknowledgement and dialogue Talking about sex can feel vulnerable and uncomfortable, but if you can’t talk about it it’s possible that you’re not really emotionally ready to do it. Many of us grew up with a complete lack of dialogue…
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The Orgasm Gap: Part 3 for Men
Learn to masturbate in a Tantric or mindful way The way you touch yourself translates to how you touch your partner and how present you are with her. The most common complaint I hear from women, about the way men…
The Orgasm Gap: Part 2 for Men
Foreplay is not just a warm up When you start to really understand and implement part one of this series, you will probably wonder what it is that you’re supposed to do during sex if it’s not all about getting…
The Orgasm Gap: Part 1 for Men
Is your female partner missing out on orgasms? A male friend of mine recently shared with me his sadness, upon hearing from two of his guy friends, that their female partners never orgasm during sex. He reported that ‘the guys…
How to give an erotic massage
Tips from a tantric massage therapist Giving and receiving massage is a fantastic way to create intimacy, trust and connection in your relationship(s). Erotic massage can take the pressure off penetrative sex, can help you both to relax, can add…
Valentines 2021: Couples Massage Course
Nothing says ‘I love you’ like giving and receiving massage… Valentines Day 2021 will be a very different experience for many couples. Without the usual ‘romantic dinner at a fancy restaurant’ to fall back on (thanks COVID!), what can you…
Deep Penetration…
What is deep penetration/deep sex? Deep penetration, or deep sex, is any sexual experience that includes direct stimulation of the cervix. There is no actual ‘penetration’ of the cervix involved: fingers/penises/dildos/vegetables 😉 will not actually pass through the opening of…
3 Simple Steps To Better Sex
Whether you’re single and dating, have been in a relationship for 5 minutes, 5 years or 5 decades, you’ve probably got some fairly ingrained ‘go to’ patterns for sex and intimacy: tried and tested ways of connecting that you feel…
What is Squirting: Female Ejaculation
Learning how to squirt is liberating… In her book ‘Female Ejaculation & The G-Spot’ Deborah Sundahl suggests that ‘Learning about the important part of your anatomy that creates female ejaculate will help you to understand that the ejaculate is separate…
Pleasure Mapping For Couples
Sex and communication… One of the most common problems I hear from couples I work with is that they’re not confident in communicating what feels good and what doesn’t and that’s resulting in a dissatisfying or non-existent sex life. Some…