Make masturbation more exciting Witnessing people masturbating has taught me a lot. One thing I’ve noticed is that most people have a very boring and static masturbation position that they adopt. This limits their engagement with their actual body: they…
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The 12 Days of Touchmas
A simple touch practice for each day of the festive period I’m sure you’ve probably heard of the ’12 days of Christmas’; an extravagantly useless deluge of gifts (I mean, who really needs ’11 pipers piping’ in their living room…
Anal Toys in Self-Pleasure
What’s so great about anal pleasure? Believe it or not, a lot of people are fascinated by their own (and other people’s) buttholes. It’s an area of the body that unites us all, we all have an anus. It’s also…
Tantric Masturbation: A Beginners Guide
The main difference between Tantric masturbation and ‘regular’ masturbation is the lack of a ‘goal’. Tantric masturbation can be a great way to increase body and sexual confidence through the judgement-free, goal-free, loving touch and connection with yourself.
Anal Self-Pleasuring for Guys
What is anal massage? Anal massage involves touching, massaging, exploring and enjoying the area of your anus (your arsehole). It can include only external touch, or can also involve internal prostate massage (more about that in a bit). A good…
A Guide To Lube…
What’s the best lube or lubrication to use for intimate massage and sex? This is a question that comes up a lot in my couples coaching sessions and couples workshops. Sensual intimate massage is lots more fun if you use…
Masturbation Coaching…
What it’s like to work with a masturbation coach… Is your masturbation routine boring, habitual and unsatisfying? You’ve probably never been more acutely aware of this than you are right now. Many of us are in lockdown, isolated, working from…
Top-To-Toe Touch: An Orgasmic Meditation Practice
What is orgasmic meditation? I developed this mindful masturbation and orgasmic meditation practice to combine a structured way of moving attention through the body with loving self-touch. Exploring your body in this way ensures that no area is left untouched,…
Self Pleasuring vs Masturbating
Deeper orgasms, better sex and more relaxation… I’m writing this blog from a woman’s perspective, relative to women’s orgasms, women’s masturbation patterns and a woman’s body, but it can be just as easily applied to a male point of view….
Touching Me, Touching You
The secrets of beautiful massage… I often feel that massage and touch is not something I ‘do’, it’s something I ‘am’. It’s not something I can teach you, it’s not techniques and skills, it’s an embodiment of the way you…