Do you avoid anal sex because it’s been painful in the past? Are you curious to try anal sex with your partner but hitting a pain barrier after those first 1-2 inches of penetration? in this blog I’m going to outline all the tips and tricks I’ve learned over the years, both as a giver and receiver of anal penetration, to make it pain free!
Browsing CategorySexual Issues Erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, pre-orgasmia, vaginismus and other sexual dysfunction issues…
Erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, pre-orgasmia, vaginismus and other sexual dysfunction issues…
Arousal, Erections and Anal Play after Prostate Surgery
I work with many men, and their partners, each year who have been through prostate cancer. Their questions around how prostate removal affects intimacy generally focus on the impact on their erections, what orgasm will feel like, and whether anal penetration is still OK. In this blog article I’ll cover all three and share my experiences as an intimate bodyworker.
Increasing Sexual Confidence
Do you experience feelings of shyness, shame, or anxiety when getting close to someone for the first time? Maybe you’re uncertain about how to enjoy sex and ensure your partner’s pleasure as well. It could be that negative thoughts about your body hold you back from progressing with a new partner, causing worries about being naked, intimate, and engaging in sexual activity.
What should I do about ‘blue balls’?
The practice of non-ejaculation can sometimes lead to a temporarily uncomfortable sensation known as blue balls. Here’s my tips on how to deal with it the Tantric way!
Fix erectile dysfunction whilst you sleep
Sleep: the overlooked ingredient in fixing erectile dysfunction Erectile dysfunction is a common problem that affects millions of men worldwide. It can cause a lot of stress and anxiety, and can negatively impact relationships. I work with countless men whose…
Why Can’t I Orgasm With A Partner: Part 3
What you’re receiving is not what you really want…Firstly, do you know what you really want? Secondly, how do you communicate that in a loving and effective way to your partner?
Why Can’t I Orgasm With A Partner: Part 2
Squeezing and clenching instead of relaxing and letting go…As a bodyworker and masseuse specialising in intimate and sensual touch, I have seen that pretty much, without fail, every person that I’ve worked with who is experiencing some level of anorgasmia has chronic tension patterns in their body.
Why Can’t I Orgasm With A Partner: Part 1
The buzz could be killing your buzz… This is a question that I get asked by a lot of female clients. It was also a personal issue for me until about 10 years ago: I could reach orgasm when I was masturbating, but when I was with a partner I just didn’t…get there.
Vaginismus and Genital Massage
What is vaginismus? Have you ever experienced pain during penetrative sex, or when using a dildo, or even when inserting a tampon? When you’re having sex does it sometimes feel as if the opening of your vagina is ‘too tight’…
Erectile Dysfunction and Genital Massage
What causes erectile dysfunction? There can be many contributing factors that lead to erectile dysfunction (ED). It’s important to consult your doctor, and address underlying health concerns such as high blood pressure, diabetes, weight issues, stress levels or side-effects of…