What you’re receiving is not what you really want…Firstly, do you know what you really want? Secondly, how do you communicate that in a loving and effective way to your partner?
Browsing CategorySexual Issues Erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, pre-orgasmia, vaginismus and other sexual dysfunction issues…
Erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, pre-orgasmia, vaginismus and other sexual dysfunction issues…
Why Can’t I Orgasm With A Partner: Part 2
Squeezing and clenching instead of relaxing and letting go…As a bodyworker and masseuse specialising in intimate and sensual touch, I have seen that pretty much, without fail, every person that I’ve worked with who is experiencing some level of anorgasmia has chronic tension patterns in their body.
Why Can’t I Orgasm With A Partner: Part 1
The buzz could be killing your buzz… This is a question that I get asked by a lot of female clients. It was also a personal issue for me until about 10 years ago: I could reach orgasm when I was masturbating, but when I was with a partner I just didn’t…get there.
Vaginismus and Genital Massage
What is vaginismus? Have you ever experienced pain during penetrative sex, or when using a dildo, or even when inserting a tampon? When you’re having sex does it sometimes feel as if the opening of your vagina is ‘too tight’…
Erectile Dysfunction and Genital Massage
What causes erectile dysfunction? There can be many contributing factors that lead to erectile dysfunction (ED). It’s important to consult your doctor, and address underlying health concerns such as high blood pressure, diabetes, weight issues, stress levels or side-effects of…
Endometriosis: Taking Charge Of Your Menstrual Health
Endometriosis affects 1 in 10 women of reproductive age in the UK, and 176 million women worldwide. There is no agreed upon understanding of the cause of endometriosis, and no effective medically based prevention or cure has yet been developed….
Premature Ejaculation: How To Last Longer In Sex
How can I cure premature ejaculation? This is one of the most common questions I get asked. It’s often also expressed as ‘wanting to delay ejaculation’ or ‘a desire to have more choice around the ejaculatory response’. Premature ejaculation is…
Pain During Sex
The absence of pain does not = pleasure… I recently read an article in Stylist magazine in which the author recounted her own journey through diagnosis and treatment of vulvodynia (a blanket term for ‘pain in the vulva’). Wikipedia defines…
Porn Addiction: do you want to change?
Change the way you masturbate, change your life… I work with hundreds of clients a year (men and women) who have identified that they have an unhealthy relationship with porn, that they are stuck in habitual and dependent patterns and…