A lot of pressure is put on the penis to perform in a certain way during sex. Erectile dysfunction is much more common than people think, and knowing how to touch a soft penis is easier if you understand the mechanics of arousal. A lot of clients express insecurity about what to do with their partner’s penis if it’s not hard, so let’s explore the options.
Browsing CategorySexual Issues Erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, pre-orgasmia, vaginismus and other sexual dysfunction issues…
Erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, pre-orgasmia, vaginismus and other sexual dysfunction issues…
Kegel exercises and the pelvic floor
Kegel exercises can help with many sexual issues, but it can be confusing to know if you’re ‘doing them right’. Unfortunately there isn’t a straightforward answer because it depends on the reason why you want to train your pelvic floor, and a lot of other individual factors.
Improving Peyronie’s disease with massage
Many of my male clients have concerns about the size or shape of their penis, and a handful of those are dealing with the more specific issue of Peyronie’s. It affects people in multiple ways: there’s the physical pain, the curved shape of the penis, and the impact on intimate relationships. In this article we’ll look at how these massage practices can make a difference, and dive into the simple techniques you can use.
How to make anal sex less painful
Do you avoid anal sex because it’s been painful in the past? Are you curious to try anal sex with your partner but hitting a pain barrier after those first 1-2 inches of penetration? in this blog I’m going to outline all the tips and tricks I’ve learned over the years, both as a giver and receiver of anal penetration, to make it pain free!
Arousal, Erections and Anal Play after Prostate Surgery
I work with many men, and their partners, each year who have been through prostate cancer. Their questions around how prostate removal affects intimacy generally focus on the impact on their erections, what orgasm will feel like, and whether anal penetration is still OK. In this blog article I’ll cover all three and share my experiences as an intimate bodyworker.
Increasing Sexual Confidence
Do you experience feelings of shyness, shame, or anxiety when getting close to someone for the first time? Maybe you’re uncertain about how to enjoy sex and ensure your partner’s pleasure as well. It could be that negative thoughts about your body hold you back from progressing with a new partner, causing worries about being naked, intimate, and engaging in sexual activity.
What should I do about ‘blue balls’?
The practice of non-ejaculation can sometimes lead to a temporarily uncomfortable sensation known as blue balls. Here’s my tips on how to deal with it the Tantric way!
Fix erectile dysfunction whilst you sleep
Sleep: the overlooked ingredient in fixing erectile dysfunction Erectile dysfunction is a common problem that affects millions of men worldwide. It can cause a lot of stress and anxiety, and can negatively impact relationships. I work with countless men whose…
Why Can’t I Orgasm With A Partner: Part 3
What you’re receiving is not what you really want…Firstly, do you know what you really want? Secondly, how do you communicate that in a loving and effective way to your partner?
Why Can’t I Orgasm With A Partner: Part 2
Squeezing and clenching instead of relaxing and letting go…As a bodyworker and masseuse specialising in intimate and sensual touch, I have seen that pretty much, without fail, every person that I’ve worked with who is experiencing some level of anorgasmia has chronic tension patterns in their body.