What is anal massage? Anal massage involves touching, massaging, exploring and enjoying the area of your anus (your arsehole). It can include only external touch, or can also involve internal prostate massage (more about that in a bit). A good…
Erectile Dysfunction and Genital Massage
What causes erectile dysfunction? There can be many contributing factors that lead to erectile dysfunction (ED). It’s important to consult your doctor, and address underlying health concerns such as high blood pressure, diabetes, weight issues, stress levels or side-effects of…
A Guide To Lube…
What’s the best lube or lubrication to use for intimate massage and sex? This is a question that comes up a lot in my couples coaching sessions and couples workshops. Sensual intimate massage is lots more fun if you use…
Deep Penetration…
What is deep penetration/deep sex? Deep penetration, or deep sex, is any sexual experience that includes direct stimulation of the cervix. There is no actual ‘penetration’ of the cervix involved: fingers/penises/dildos/vegetables 😉 will not actually pass through the opening of…
Tantric Sex Positions…
Tantric sex positions for maximum full body pleasure… There are three basic differences (in my opinion and experience) between the ‘tantric’ approach to sex and the ‘regular’ approach to sex: Avoiding ‘peak orgasm’: Men do not ejaculate, they retain their…
Masturbation Coaching…
What it’s like to work with a masturbation coach… Is your masturbation routine boring, habitual and unsatisfying? You’ve probably never been more acutely aware of this than you are right now. Many of us are in lockdown, isolated, working from…
Endometriosis: Taking Charge Of Your Menstrual Health
Endometriosis affects 1 in 10 women of reproductive age in the UK, and 176 million women worldwide. There is no agreed upon understanding of the cause of endometriosis, and no effective medically based prevention or cure has yet been developed….
Premature Ejaculation: How To Last Longer In Sex
How can I cure premature ejaculation? This is one of the most common questions I get asked. It’s often also expressed as ‘wanting to delay ejaculation’ or ‘a desire to have more choice around the ejaculatory response’. Premature ejaculation is…
Diving Into A Deluxe Session
Deluxe sensual massage… A lot of people ask me ‘what is the difference beween your 2 hour session and a 3 hour session?’ Firstly, a Deluxe session gives us more flexibility to tailor the experience to your individual motivations and…
3 Simple Steps To Better Sex
Whether you’re single & dating, have been in a relationship for 5 minutes, 5 years or 5 decades, you’ve probably got some fairly ingrained ‘go to’ patterns for sex and intimacy: tried and tested ways of connecting that you feel…