Do you avoid anal sex because it’s been painful in the past? Are you curious to try anal sex with your partner but hitting a pain barrier after those first 1-2 inches of penetration? in this blog I’m going to outline all the tips and tricks I’ve learned over the years, both as a giver and receiver of anal penetration, to make it pain free!
Arousal, Erections and Anal Play after Prostate Surgery
I work with many men, and their partners, each year who have been through prostate cancer. Their questions around how prostate removal affects intimacy generally focus on the impact on their erections, what orgasm will feel like, and whether anal penetration is still OK. In this blog article I’ll cover all three and share my experiences as an intimate bodyworker.
Women want men to do these 10 things in bed
Guys: ever wondered what women really want in bed? I interviewed female friends, lovers and clients to get you real answers! This 10 step guide will give you a solid foundation to feel relaxed and confident in the bedroom.
Increasing Sexual Confidence
Do you experience feelings of shyness, shame, or anxiety when getting close to someone for the first time? Maybe you’re uncertain about how to enjoy sex and ensure your partner’s pleasure as well. It could be that negative thoughts about your body hold you back from progressing with a new partner, causing worries about being naked, intimate, and engaging in sexual activity.
What should I do about ‘blue balls’?
The practice of non-ejaculation can sometimes lead to a temporarily uncomfortable sensation known as blue balls. Here’s my tips on how to deal with it the Tantric way!
How to ask for what you want during sex
Do you find it difficult to ask for what you want during sex? Perhaps you believe that you’re not ‘allowed’ to say what you want or give feedback to your partner. Use these two simple practices to feel more confident and relaxed in asking for what you want.
Fix erectile dysfunction whilst you sleep
Sleep: the overlooked ingredient in fixing erectile dysfunction Erectile dysfunction is a common problem that affects millions of men worldwide. It can cause a lot of stress and anxiety, and can negatively impact relationships. I work with countless men whose…
Masturbation Positions
Make masturbation more exciting Witnessing people masturbating has taught me a lot. One thing I’ve noticed is that most people have a very boring and static masturbation position that they adopt. This limits their engagement with their actual body: they…
The 12 Days of Touchmas
A simple touch practice for each day of the festive period I’m sure you’ve probably heard of the ’12 days of Christmas’; an extravagantly useless deluge of gifts (I mean, who really needs ’11 pipers piping’ in their living room…
Anal Toys in Self-Pleasure
What’s so great about anal pleasure? Believe it or not, a lot of people are fascinated by their own (and other people’s) buttholes. It’s an area of the body that unites us all, we all have an anus. It’s also…