There are 4 common categories that people talk about in personal development: Mental, Physical, Spiritual, Sexual. A non-ejaculation, or semen retention, practice might seem like it only fits into the ‘Sexual’ column, but the benefits can spread out into the other 3 pillars of your life – let’s look at how.
Morning wood, erectile dysfunction and the nervous system
You may know what it feels like to wake up to an erection: otherwise known as ‘morning wood’. But what happens when morning wood stops showing up? And what does that have to do with your nervous system states and your ability to stay hard during sex?
How to touch a soft penis
A lot of pressure is put on the penis to perform in a certain way during sex. Erectile dysfunction is much more common than people think, and knowing how to touch a soft penis is easier if you understand the mechanics of arousal. A lot of clients express insecurity about what to do with their partner’s penis if it’s not hard, so let’s explore the options.
A guide to anal dearmouring
Dearmouring is a form of bodywork designed to release physical and emotional tension. This tension creates blockages in our natural flow of energy, aliveness and vitality. In many Tantric traditions the anus is seen as a roadblock to sexual energy moving through the body. Anal dearmouring can help with issues like premature ejaculation, vaginismus and erectile dysfunction.
Kegel exercises and the pelvic floor
Kegel exercises can help with many sexual issues, but it can be confusing to know if you’re ‘doing them right’. Unfortunately there isn’t a straightforward answer because it depends on the reason why you want to train your pelvic floor, and a lot of other individual factors.
The pleasure of spanking
Spanking someone, or being spanked, might not immediately seem like a pleasurable experience, but it can be a delightful mix of physical sensation, emotional release, and playful exploration. If you’re curious this blog article will help you understand why it’s enjoyable, how to get started and how to do it safely.
Improving Peyronie’s disease with massage
Many of my male clients have concerns about the size or shape of their penis, and a handful of those are dealing with the more specific issue of Peyronie’s. It affects people in multiple ways: there’s the physical pain, the curved shape of the penis, and the impact on intimate relationships. In this article we’ll look at how these massage practices can make a difference, and dive into the simple techniques you can use.
5 Common Massage Mistakes and How To Avoid Them
Giving a massage at home is a wonderful thing to do! However, even experienced massage practitioners can occasionally make mistakes. This article outlines the five most common errors, and gives you some simple ways to correct them.
Transformational Touch Practice
In most forms of physical intimacy, touch is often seen as something we give to our partners for their pleasure. Instead of focus on what touch will evoke in them, transform it and tune in to your own sensations.
Kinky Sex: A Beginners Guide
A kinky sexual experience can mean different things to different people, and can play out along a broad spectrum. Examples of kinky sex might be: acting out sexual fantasies; using toys like butt plugs, floggers or pussy pumps; using restraints, blindfolds or bondage; involving extra people – threesomes, group sex etc. This guide will get you started, safely.