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The Wave: an alternative to peak orgasm and ejaculation…
Moving beyond ejaculation… Separating orgasm from ejaculation is something I’ve written about in my previous blog ‘Sex without ejaculating – what’s the point?!’. But what can you do instead of ejaculating during masturbation or sex with your partner? What alternatives…
Sex Without Ejaculating – What’s The Point?!
Sex doesn’t have to end in ejaculation… The tantric approach to sex is about letting go of any goal, and intentionally avoiding the ‘peak’ orgasm (i.e. ejaculation and that feeling of involuntary clenching and spasming in your genitals). The first…
Tantric Sex Positions…
Tantric sex positions for maximum full body pleasure… There are three basic differences (in my opinion and experience) between the ‘tantric’ approach to sex and the ‘regular’ approach to sex: Avoiding ‘peak orgasm’: Men do not ejaculate, they retain their…
Tantric Sex and Orgasm…
Unlike ‘regular’ sex, orgasm is not the goal of tantric sex. Avoiding ejaculation and clitoral ‘peak orgasm’ is a foundation practice of tantric sex. For many of my clients this is confusing – they hear this and believe that they…
Moving In Pleasure…
Stuck in sexual patterns… Awareness of movement in the body is one tool I encourage clients to connect with during every session. We pay particular attention to noticing how the body tenses, tightens or contracts with unconscious conditioned patterns when…
Sounds Like Sex…
Silent sex is limiting your pleasure. Do you find it difficult to vocalise your pleasure? Are your ‘sex sounds’ short, breathless and strained or perhaps just non-existent? Many of my clients would answer yes to this question, or have never…
Breathe Deep, Feel More…
Breath is the simple key to more satisfaction in your sex life. Mindful breathing can lead to a more satisfying and orgasmic sex life. Being aware of how you are breathing, and where in your body your are breathing, allows…