Whether you’re single and dating, have been in a relationship for 5 minutes, 5 years or 5 decades, you’ve probably got some fairly ingrained ‘go to’ patterns for sex and intimacy: tried and tested ways of connecting that you feel…
What is Squirting: Female Ejaculation
Learning how to squirt is liberating… In her book ‘Female Ejaculation & The G-Spot’ Deborah Sundahl suggests that ‘Learning about the important part of your anatomy that creates female ejaculate will help you to understand that the ejaculate is separate…
Pain During Sex
The absence of pain does not = pleasure… I recently read an article in Stylist magazine in which the author recounted her own journey through diagnosis and treatment of vulvodynia (a blanket term for ‘pain in the vulva’). Wikipedia defines…
Top-To-Toe Touch: An Orgasmic Meditation Practice
What is orgasmic meditation? I developed this mindful masturbation and orgasmic meditation practice to combine a structured way of moving attention through the body with loving self-touch. Exploring your body in this way ensures that no area is left untouched,…
Pleasure Mapping For Couples
Sex and communication… One of the most common problems I hear from couples I work with is that they’re not confident in communicating what feels good and what doesn’t and that’s resulting in a dissatisfying or non-existent sex life. Some…
Porn Addiction: do you want to change?
Change the way you masturbate, change your life… I work with hundreds of clients a year (men and women) who have identified that they have an unhealthy relationship with porn, that they are stuck in habitual and dependent patterns and…
Couples Massage Coaching
The art of intimate touch… I really, really enjoy working with couples. Seeing two people who love each other open up and explore their bodies with curiosity, and a willingness to learn something new, is incredible. Couples come to me…
Rosebud Massage
Exploring anal pleasure… A lot of my clients interested in experiencing a Rosebud massage, especially for the first time, come to me with questions, and often some trepidation! Hopefully this blog will answer some of those questions and help you…
What is Lingham and Yoni Massage?
An introduction to tantric genital massage… You may have read my blog ‘Your First Tantric Massage‘ and now you’re curious to know a little more about the intimate massage element of the sessions. First, let’s get the basics out of…
Your First Tantric Massage
What is a tantric massage? People contacting me for a tantric massage session do so for many reasons. They are men, women and couples who wish to experience and be guided in conscious, sensual touch. Many have never experienced a…